Why Reading Together Matters
Reading with your child is one of the most powerful things you can do to support their education. Research shows that children who are read to regularly have larger vocabularies, better comprehension skills, and a stronger love of learning.
But it's not just about reading TO your child - it's about reading WITH them in ways that build skills and create positive associations with books.
The 5 Finger Rule for Choosing Books
Help your child pick "just right" books using this simple method:
- Open to any page in the book
- Have your child read the page
- Hold up one finger for each word they don't know
- 0-1 fingers: Too easy - good for confidence building
- 2-3 fingers: Just right - perfect for learning!
- 4-5 fingers: Too hard - save for later or read it to them
Before, During, and After Reading Strategies
Before Reading
Look at the cover and title together. Ask: "What do you think this book will be about?" Make predictions and get excited about the story!
During Reading
Pause occasionally to ask questions: "What just happened? What do you think will happen next? How do you think that character feels?" Run your finger under words as you read.
After Reading
Discuss the book: "What was your favorite part? Would you change the ending? Does this remind you of anything?" Make connections to their life.
Reading Strategies by Age
Ages 3-4
Point to pictures, name objects, use silly voices, let them turn pages
Ages 4-5
Point to words, practice letter sounds, have them "read" familiar books
Ages 5-6
Echo reading (you read, they repeat), sound out simple words together
Ages 6-8
Take turns reading, discuss vocabulary, ask comprehension questions
When Your Child Gets Stuck on a Word
Instead of immediately telling them the word, try these prompts:
- "Look at the picture." - Use context clues
- "Sound it out." - Use phonics skills
- "What would make sense?" - Use comprehension
- "Skip it and come back." - Use context from the sentence
- "Look for a part you know." - Find familiar chunks
If they're still stuck after trying, tell them the word and move on. The goal is to keep reading enjoyable!
Make Reading Time Special
- Create a cozy reading spot with pillows and good lighting
- Set a consistent time each day (bedtime works great!)
- Let your child choose the books sometimes
- Visit the library together regularly
- Model reading yourself - let them see you read!
- Never use reading as a punishment
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